Grace
Robyn Black • April 27, 2021
John 8:2 – 11
Our story today contrasts judgement on one hand and grace on the other. We see people who look at the actions of a woman and condemn her. And we see Jesus who looks beyond all that stuff and sees a woman in need of grace and mercy. Oh such a great story!!!
You know, the people Jesus hung around with most, were people with faults and messed up lives. But there were a lot of people who thought that they didn’t need Jesus.
In our story today, a woman caught in adultery was brought before Jesus. This woman was in a sexual relationship with a married man. This story is set 2000 years ago, and the rules were absolutely black and white, very clear about what the punishment should be for adultery.
The most important religious people of the day, the Pharisees, brought her to Jesus, and said ‘the law says that she should be stoned to death for her behaviour, we think she should be stoned to death – what do you think?’ You might notice that there is no mention of the man who must have been caught in the act with her. There are still parts of our world today, where a woman will be killed if she is found to be in a sexual relationship with a married man.
These religious men didn’t care about the woman – they were publicly humiliating her to get at Jesus. The reading says that they made her stand in front of all the people who had gathered in TEMPLE to listen to Jesus. They did care about the law, and what they thought her punishment should be. She must have felt enormous fear, knowing that she could die at any moment. I wonder if she knew Jesus – she probably thought that he would be like all the rest of the men who were condemning her to death. But Jesus is different.
The first thing that Jesus did, was to crouch down and start writing with his finger, in the dirt. We don’t know what he wrote, but some people suggest that he might have been writing down all the wrong things and sins that those religious people had done. Because the next thing that Jesus said was “if any one of you is without sin, let him be the first to throw a stone at her”. Jesus was making the point to these people that everyone sins – we’re all in the same boat. You know, there are a lot of people that want to rate sins – like that talking about someone behind their back is not so bad, but stealing is really bad. Some people think that Centrelink fraud isn’t so bad because they hate the government, but if you say something bad about their Mum you should rot in hell!
But the bible teaches that all sin keeps us from being the people that God wants us to be, and all sin keeps us from God. Think of the person who you think is the worst! You are in the same boat as them. So when the religious people wanted Jesus to condemn this woman to death, he turned the tables completely on them, by saying to them – ‘look at your own life – you also have sin in your life’. Everyone sins– there is no perfect person, except for Jesus. Everyone has faults in their character, everyone does the wrong thing and that means that we are all equal before God – no matter what we have done.
Romans 3 verse 23 in the bible says “all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God.” These religious people must have realised that they too were sinful, because one by one, they all walked away. They obviously came to realise that whilst they were condemning this woman, they forgot to check out their own life, and look at their own defects of character. Have you heard people say that when you point the finger at someone, there’s three fingers pointing back at you. We are all sinners before God.
So, back to the woman. Everyone else left, and she was left there standing with Jesus. I imagine that she still would have felt terrible. Even though she knew that those people were not going to sentence her to death, she was still standing in the temple with Jesus. And I think she would have been very aware of her situation and failings. She knew that she had done the wrong thing. So Jesus said to her – “woman, where are they? (meaning the people who had wanted her killed). ‘Has no one condemned you?’
I kind of like that Jesus asks her a question and gets her to speak. She’s there perhaps overwhelmed by shame and he asks a question which focusses her attention off herself and on to Jesus. Gosh, we all need that don’t we. Something that takes our focus off ourself, off our shame, off our guilt, off our fear, off our anxiety, off perhaps our self-pity, and puts our focus back on to Jesus. Is there anyone here still condemning you? She said “no one sir”. And then Jesus delivers the most beautiful life giving sentence that anyone could hear. “neither do I condemn” he said, “go now and leave your life of sin”.
Jesus, who was without sin and ironically could have said, this is the law and you deserve a terrible consequence. But he didn’t…even before his death, even before his resurrection, even before his defeat of sin and evil, he showed grace and mercy, that was his life, not just a result of his death. Grace and mercy. If we have trouble with showing grace and mercy in life, we need to have a heart to heart talk with God…because we need to be all about grace and mercy.
And the second part of Jesus statement is just as important. Jesus doesn’t condemn her, but he does ask her to leave her life of sin, and give up her old ways. He can forgive us for any of our sins, but he also asks us to be willing to change. Jesus said to her, and says to us today “I don’t condemn you – you’re off the hook for your past, but make your future different.”
Jesus’ message was not just about forgiveness of sins, but also about a quality of life that overcomes the power of sin with God’s help.
This requires being willing to change, and that can be very hard. Jesus says in the bible “who needs a doctor – the healthy or the sick? I’m here (with)… an invitation to a changed life, changed inside and out” (Luke 5:32).
Sometimes we can know we’re doing the wrong thing, but not be prepared to give it up. Not be prepared to change. Jesus said that he didn’t condemn her for her past, and when we say we‘re sorry to God for our past, he doesn’t condemn us. But he does ask us to be willing to give up our old destructive ways –there might be various things that come to mind for you.
There is an old story, and I’m told a true story about how you catch monkeys...presuming you want to catch a monkey! Now, monkeys are very fast, and they are very clever. It would be impossible to chase them – they are too fast, and they can climb trees pretty quickly.
But someone worked out how to catch a monkey really easily and it’s like this. You put a banana in a small cage, and wait for the monkey. You don’t leave the cage door open, the monkey doesn’t even have to go inside the cage. The monkey comes along, sees the banana, reaches his hand through the bars of the cage and grabs the banana. But in grabbing the banana, he can no longer get his hand out from between the bars (demonstration). The only way the monkey can get his hand back out through the bars is to let go of the banana - then he will be free.
If we are willing to let go of the destructive ways in our life, and be willing to have God remove them, we can live in freedom of spirit. But sometimes we want to hang on to certain behaviours or thought patterns – even though we know that they are hurtful to ourselves or others. We have to be willing to let go – let go of our defects of character, and ask God to change us. And you know I think this is a life time work in progress. Because we are not perfect, we need to keep asking God to change us, to free us to become the people He knows we can be.
Maybe you need to ask God to forgive you for something you’ve done, and ask God to change you. Or maybe you’ve thought of a defect of character, and like the monkey, you don’t want to let go of it. Yet you don’t want to stay trapped with that defect. Or maybe there’s someone you need to stop condemn or judging? We have all sinned, and all done the wrong thing.
Or perhaps it’s time to bring your focus in life back to Jesus…. God bless you this week as you receive grace and mercy, and show grace and mercy to others.
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This is an interesting Psalm – another psalm of ascent. We spoke about these Psalms of Ascent a few weeks ago. They were songs the Jewish people sang as they made their way to Jerusalem to go to the temple, through the forest, along the tracks, camping by the roads. And I believe songs like this kept them focussed and kept their spirits up. I can imagine days of walking together, tiring, boring, hot and dusty. And singing some of these Psalms keep them focussed on the faithfulness of God. Much better then eye spy for the kids. Journeys are not all their cracked up to be even if the destination is worth it. As you know, when I was growing up we always holidayed at Bawley Point past Ulladulla, and in those days it was about a 4 hour drive from Sydney. We always left later than we meant to…and the last 20 mins was on a dirt road. One year when I was probably about 4 years old it was dark by the time we got to the dirt road, and half way along the dirt road, was a dodgy wooden bridge over a river. I think part of the bridge had been damaged and we had to wait a bit in the pitch black darkness before we could proceed. Dad was out with a torch ensuring the bridge was safe to drive on and mum and us 4 kids were sitting in the darkness – no street lights, no moonlight. Of course, you might be able to guess what I said to mum in that car, with fearful crying…you’ve probably heard it from kids before. I said ‘I want to go home’. Mum said to me, ‘we can’t go home Robyn, we’re almost there’. In truth, after the bridge we had the last 10 minutes of a 4 hours journey left. We safely crossed the bridge and we were OK. But I remember it. I remember the feeling of being scarred in the darkness. I remember not liking this journey at all. Even though I always loved the destination. Well this psalm celebrates the end of the journey and the arrival at the destination. Psalm 126:1-3, “When the Lord brought back his exiles to Jerusalem, it was like a dream! We were filled with laughter, and we sang for joy. And the other nations said, “What amazing things the Lord has done for them.” Yes, the Lord has done amazing things for us! What joy!” Before we can understand the laughter and joy of the Israelites, we have to understand their journey. This Psalm looks back to when they arrived back in Jerusalem after 70 long years in Babylon. The captives had experienced great sorrow and mourning in exile. We read these heartbreaking words in Psalm 137: “Beside the rivers of Babylon, we sat and wept as we thought of Jerusalem. We put away our harps, hanging them on the branches of poplar trees. For our captors demanded a song from us. Our tormentors insisted on a joyful hymn: “Sing us one of those songs of Jerusalem!” But how can we sing the songs of the Lord while in a pagan land?” (Psalm 137:1-4). Their tormentors demanded they sing joyfully, but they were like – that’s impossible, it doesn’t come from our heart. So they just sat by the waters of Babylon and wept. But now by an amazing work of God they were suddenly back in Jerusalem. And so their joy came from their heart. The wait was over, the journey was complete. “We were filled with laughter, and we sang for joy.” The journey is the hard bit though isn’t it? I was reminded of this, this week. An Officer couple I was speaking to, said that their teenager said some very hurtful things to them. Stuff like, ‘you make my life worse’. As they spoke to me, I did very little but listen and pray with them. They do have other supports in their life as well, already seeing a psychologist. But what I was thinking in my head as they were speaking was ‘oh the teenage years, I’d forgotten them’. Though we have 2 wonderful young adults in P and K, they were times when it was more than tense. K wears her heart on her sleeve, and to this day apologises for some of the things she said to me. And P, you wouldn’t know what he was thinking, and then all of a sudden all his thoughts and feelings for the last 3 years would come out like molten lava everywhere. A few days later I checked in to see how the couple and their teenager were going. I mentioned in passing about teenage years and very briefly about our experiences. I didn’t want to make it all about me. But I said teenage years can be painful and those years can really hurt everyone in the family. Teenager included. They know that we have a good relationship with P and K and they said to me, you know, this is helpful. It gives us hope. I was like, yep, this too shall pass. Because when you’re in the midst of the journey of pain and sorrow, you sometimes wonder if there’s light at the end of the tunnel. If you’ll laugh again or experience joy again. You begin to wonder, “Is this all that God has for me? Will I ever be happy again?” And here’s the promise in Psalm 126:4-6, “Restore our fortunes, Lord, as streams renew the desert. Those who plant in tears will harvest with shouts of joy. They weep as they go to plant their seed, but they sing as they return with the harvest.” When you are going through a time of deep sorrow, Psalm 126 is strong medicine for your soul. It carries a powerful message of hope. It tells you that times of trouble and sorrow do not last. It tells you that God will turn your sorrow to joy and your tears to laughter. If you are going through a challenging time right now, I pray that this psalm will speak to your heart this morning. Let me tell you right up front, whatever you’re going through, it will get better. God will change your tears to joy. This week I found something I wrote about 10 years ago. I had written it on a piece of paper and there was a whole reflection about my life. At the time we had my mum living with us, she had dementia, and mostly I remember the good times and the fun times with her. I was also the Corps Officer at Glebe and Bob was the manager at William Booth House. After a page of writing I had written something like this “I’m often anxious, I’m usually stressed, I have eczema on my eyelids and ulcers in my mouth. I always feel pressed.” I went out to Bob in the lounge room and I’m like, ‘oh my goodness, eczema on my eyelids and ulcers in my mouth’, often anxious, usually stressed. The thing is, my life feels a long way from that now, and I’d forgotten what that part of my journey felt like. I’m sure when I was there I couldn’t look ahead and see a time of joy…but the truth is that “Those who plant in tears will harvest with shouts of joy. They weep as they go to plant their seed, but they sing as they return with the harvest.” This too shall pass. ‘Yes, the Lord has done amazing things for us!’ says verse 3. God is faithful – he does the healing, the restoring, he brings the streams in the desert that renews and brings fruitfulness. I don’t need to tell you – it takes time. Today, I’m praying for a work of healing in your life, a gradual restoration of joy, of laughter. Like me as a kid, sometimes we don’t like parts of this journey at all. Even though we know our destination is good. And ultimately, we have a destination like no other and that’s the promise of God. A home in heaven made possible through Jesus. May God bless you this week as you look to Him, listen to Him, find your hope in Him and find courage and healing in your journey.